Anxiously Ambitious
Hi! I’m Netty, three-time founder, mom, and your host of Anxiously Ambitious. Welcome to the podcast where we embrace imperfection, honour our humanity, and prove you don’t have to have your sh*t together to build something amazing.
This is for my fellow deep feelers, sensitive souls, and anxious go-getters trying to grow without completely losing it. Together, we’ll dive into the messiness of ambition, how to balance big dreams with actual self-care (hint: it’s not easy, but it’s worth it) and how to thrive without sacrificing your sanity.
Every week, I bring you honest conversations with entrepreneurs, experts, and other beautifully flawed humans who’ve walked this path. We’ll share real stories, practical advice, and maybe even a few laughs, all to help you build a business and a life that feel like you.
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Anxiously Ambitious
Ellie Steinbrink: Trusting Your Style, Trusting Yourself
In this episode of Anxiously Ambitious, I’m joined by Ellie Steinbrink — Expert Stylist, Personal Brand Coach & Speaker, and the founder of Style Decoded.
Ellie spent over 20 years in marketing and branding before realizing she was on the wrong path. In the messy middle of burnout, part-time work, and even insomnia, she followed a nudge she couldn’t ignore: start posting one outfit a day on Instagram. That daily ritual awakened a new career, a new sense of confidence, and eventually became the foundation of her business helping women entrepreneurs align their inside with their outside.
We get into what it means to stop hiding behind your clothes, why self-trust is at the core of style, and how the way you get dressed in the morning changes more than your outfit — it changes your day.
In this episode, we explore:
- The moment Ellie heard the “voice” that told her to follow her passion for style
- Why giving yourself grace in the messy middle leads to breakthroughs
- The vulnerable truth about standing out vs. blending in as a personal brand
- The “closet effect”: how what you wear literally shifts your brain chemistry and daily outcomes
- Practical ways to clear the overwhelm and reconnect with clothes that make you feel like you
- Why style is less about shopping and more about asking: Who is the woman I’m becoming?
Guest Bio
Ellie Steinbrink is an Expert Stylist, Personal Brand Coach & Speaker. After two decades in marketing, she founded Style Decoded to help women entrepreneurs define and embody their authentic style. Blending psychology, branding, and fashion, she empowers women to stand out, simplify their closets, and feel magnetic in both business and life.
Connect with Ellie
Website: elliesteinbrink.com
Instagram: @style.decoded
LinkedIn: Ellie Steinbrink
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Keywords
personal branding, women entrepreneurs, self-expression, authentic style, enclothed cognition, confidence, midlife empowerment, brand alignment, personal growth, less is more
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